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Passion: Articles that deal with the inner drive that we all need to want to MOVE from where we currently are to where we dream to be.
Preparation: These posts reference articles, books, documentaries, speakers, quotes, and other inspirational and formative ideas that I have found that helped me and the people around me.
Practice: Articles in this category have a heavy sports and performance training lean.
Performance: These articles focus on how you go about your work. From networking to communications to finding a better way to do what you do.
Perseverance: Articles in this category speak to the mechanics that we go through both mentally and physically to stay on track and not get STUCK.
Get Moving or Stay Stuck
Most people believe life is going to give them a “break” eventually.
A “break” where everything they want just falls into their laps. Where their energy is high, their confidence is steady, and their path is finally clear. They wait for that feeling because it's easier than the alternative. It removes risk, effort, spent energy, and bad decisions. It gives them permission to just keep moving at their current pace.
That “break” does not exist.
What exists is the undeniable fact that you are losing time. It is literally slipping away with each tick of the clock, whether you act or not. What exists is that your opportunities are narrowing while you hesitate. What exists is a reality where the longer you wait, the harder it becomes to separate yourself from the life you are STUCK in.
This is where most people lose control of their direction. Not in failure. Not in their lack of talent. But in dragging their feet. Hesitating. Making excuses.
Because delay feels justified. It sounds responsible. It hides behind phrases like “I’m not ready yet” or “I just need a little more time.” But underneath all of it is the same truth. You are waiting to feel something that only comes when you have pushed the envelope and are ready to step into that next chapter of your life.
Life does not respond to how you feel. It responds to what you do.
And if you are not actively building something of your own, you are contributing to building someone else’s dreams. That is not just “my opinion”. That is how the systems of success actually work. Every organization, every business, every structure requires energy. If you are not directing yours toward your own vision, it will be directed toward your employer's vision.
That is where the frustration comes from, years later. Not from working hard, but from realizing that your effort was spent advancing something that never truly belonged to you.
This is not about rejecting work. It is about owning your life and working for you.
Once that is clear, the question shifts. Not “How do I feel?” but “What am I building?”
And if the answer is unclear, then movement becomes the only way to find it.
Embracing the Grind: Hard Times Equal Great Lessons
How many of you have been in a position that seemed like there would be no end to the trials and tribulations, so much so that you felt that you just needed to get up and walk out?
I think we all have been there.
But how many of you hung on one more day, and then one more day, and another and another until the hate became a passion?
In life, we often find ourselves wading through some hard times. Whether personal challenges, professional struggles, or challenges out of our control, the phrase “things will get worse before they get better” resonates deeply. It’s a hard truth that we all wrestle with at one time or another. What we learn through the grind is that what we are going through will one day allow us to face any adversity with resilience and hope.
Suck It Up, Buttercup
When I played football, my mom had only one coaching point: “If you get hurt, don’t lie on the ground; get up and run off the field.” My father often told us, “You need to stop crying, or I’ll give you something to really cry about.” Our family dictionary didn’t have the word "Sympathy” in it. We weren’t abused in any way; we were just taught that we should push through the little things that life throws at us.
We were raised to be tough.
Toughness is often associated with physical strength, but true toughness goes beyond the surface. It's about resilience, perseverance, and the ability to overcome challenges. The earlier in life we are taught this, the better.
Set the Bar Higher
Did you hear that?
That collective sigh of relief.
That sound came from 99% of the population after hearing that “they only need to compete with themselves”. I can hear them, they’re saying, “Finally, I don’t have to try to be much better than I am right now.”
Leadership: Developing a Team Culture
Coach Tom Landry put it best when he said, “My job is to get men to do what they don’t want to do so they can become who they want to be.” That is coaching in a nutshell. Athletes are humans and all humans have basic weaknesses. For most it takes someone or something to make them push past their self-imposed barriers so that they can become all that they were meant to be.
Rusty Trucks: Part I – Sports
The “Rusty Trucks” show up early. They show up prepared. They don’t complain. They come to work. They’re not high-maintenance.
They don’t play for the money; they play for the love of the game. You never see a “Rusty Truck” holding out. They get what they have “earned”. They don’t talk about what they “deserve”.
Answer vs Reason
In your profession you are either the ANSWER to the problems or you are the REASON for the problems.